Want to add some spice to your existing relationship, then go on a mystery date and get ready to reap the benefits. Women love surprises, they like mystery, and they like it when their man cares enough to plan a day dedicated to them. Now I am like you, I am lazy, and after I have been in an established relationship with a girl and I already know the sex is there when I want it, why do I need to goto the trouble of having a mystery date? You do this to keep her interested in you and make her fall in love with you all over again. Why am I talking like you need to already be in an established relationship to have a mystery date? Well you don’t have to be, but it’s a little more difficult to pull off on the first date or two then it is say after a few months.
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We constantly preach that looks and style matter very little in the pickup game. Your body language, Alpha Male presence, and ability to create sexual attraction is what ultimately will win over any woman. In the world of business and social networking, your appearance matters just a little bit more, as impressions are made within the first four seconds of meeting a potential client or business partner, and those crucial first four seconds will make the difference between you closing the deal and you looking for a new line of work. In a business setting you always want to dress to impress, and by this I mean you want to out dress your client by about 15%. If you out dress them too much you may make them feel uncomfortable and if you under dress you will appear lazy, sloppy, and unbusinesslike. 15% means if they wear jeans and a t-shirt, you wear a button up shirt. If they wear a button up shirt, you add a tie. This goes in hand with knowing who your client is, just like in the pickup game, the know you more about your potential target, (cold reading, observations, profiling) the better chance you have at succeeding with said target.
Humans are creatures of habit. We tend to get into a daily routine and stick with it until something comes along and shocks us out of it such as a new job or start/breakup of a relationship. We like to be comfortable. Going to new places, meeting new people, trying new things takes a lot of people out of their comfort zone. To avoid feeling out of place they stick to their daily routines. We’re all victims of it, it’s not a bad thing, but now that we know, we can take advantage of this phenomenon and use it to increase the number of women we meet, the number of dates we go on, and our overall success with women in general.
I know what you’re thinking. What the hell does a Rubik’s Cube have to do with getting girls? It’s not a status symbol. She’s not going to magically rip off her clothes for you just because you’re holding a $5 piece of plastic. Women are attracted to men of quality. That can be power, money, knowledge, job, good looks, funny. We will use the Rubik’s Cube to increase our intellectual status among women. Intellect is a very hard quality to present to women. Most people obtain it through status such a having a high profession such as doctor or lawyer, or obtaining your PhD. If you don’t have a qualifier like that, then the only other way for a woman to think your smart is by getting to know you, listening to the way you talk or ability to solve problems. But we don’t always have time for that, so instead we will solve a Rubik’s Cube, which will make her think we are some kind of hidden genius.
Getting the phone number of the cute blond across the room is what we shoot for each time we go out, but even after we go over and get her number, sometimes we are left a little unsure that the number we got was actually real. We don’t find out until two or three days later when we get around to calling that we find out she pulled a fast one over us. Besides from making us look like a horse’s ass, it’s just a waste of our time. Why spend the time calling up fake numbers, when you can be setting up a date with one of the many other girls whose number you got that night. That’s why we don’t leave anything to chance. Now it’s easy to just ask her, “Is this your real number?” but you always come off looking like an ass and it kills whatever sexual chemistry you were able to create with her to get her number in the first place. Plus, girls lie, and they’re great at it, so they will tell you straight up to your face that it is their number. So next time use this little trick. If she tells you her number and you either write it down or punch it into your cell phone, repeat it back to her, but as you are repeating the number back, mess up 1 or 2 digits on purpose. If she really is giving you her number and really wants you to call, she will correct you on the spot. It will look like this:
Not ready to take on a full fledged cold reading?Then try the five minute personality test.It will still amaze the target and lead her to believe you have psychic abilities.Take a pen and piece of paper, or napkin so she can write down her answers.Better yet have her draw a picture as you tell the story.
A target’s name is her keepsake.To know it is a privilege and a curse.If she tells you her name she is sharing a part of herself with you, and that in itself is important.The problem most guys have is our memory.It doesn’t matter how many time they tell us their name, we just don’t remember it.Every time we forget is like a slap in the face to the target.I recommend to most guys, don’t even bother asking for her name.You won’t remember it when she asks you.
You found her!The woman you want to spend the rest of your life with.When she is around you hear the birds sing, see the flowers bloom, and you walk around all day on cloud nine, the slightest hint of her perfume is enough to make your knees weak.You sir, are in love.Your life is perfect, except for one little thing, this girl is not your girlfriend, but just a friend, maybe even your so called best friend.You have been there for her countless times, through the break ups, the drunken nights, and family problems.She has even told you that she wishes she could find a guy out there just like you, but you just can’t bring yourself to ask her outThere is only one solution to your problem, you have to move on.It’s the only way you can save yourself, and have any possibility of dating this girl.
Ask any married man if he thinks he was hit on more when he was single you will be surprised to learn he has been approached more as a married man.What is it about a married man that women find so attractive?Easy, it is because she can’t have him.Women are competitive; they want what another woman has.If a woman believes the man already has a woman, then there is a quality in that man which another woman found worthy of his pursuit.This will not only spike her interest as to what this quality is, but it will make her feel like less of a woman.She will feel compelled to gain back her self worth and prove to herself that she is either as good looking or better looking then your wife.The only way she can do this, is by stealing the man away.You can also see this in action with girls who are best friends or roommates.It is not uncommon for a girl to date the ex of one of their friends.This is referred to as mate copying.The best part about this is just the act of being off the market is enough to tell all other woman that you are a man with qualities women desire.There is no selling yourself.