When beginning any new career, hobby, or general pursuit, it’s easy to day dream about the time when all our hard work has paid off and we are basking in the glory of fame, money, or women’s panties. It’s those daydreams that drive us to push harder, take chances, and try things outside of our comfort zone. Therefore, for many aspiring Casanovas, we look forward to the time where we can walk up to any woman, whether in a bar or on the street, whisper a few sweet words in her ear and she grabs us by the hand and into the back of a darkly lit booth.
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We constantly preach that looks and style matter very little in the pickup game. Your body language, Alpha Male presence, and ability to create sexual attraction is what ultimately will win over any woman. In the world of business and social networking, your appearance matters just a little bit more, as impressions are made within the first four seconds of meeting a potential client or business partner, and those crucial first four seconds will make the difference between you closing the deal and you looking for a new line of work. In a business setting you always want to dress to impress, and by this I mean you want to out dress your client by about 15%. If you out dress them too much you may make them feel uncomfortable and if you under dress you will appear lazy, sloppy, and unbusinesslike. 15% means if they wear jeans and a t-shirt, you wear a button up shirt. If they wear a button up shirt, you add a tie. This goes in hand with knowing who your client is, just like in the pickup game, the know you more about your potential target, (cold reading, observations, profiling) the better chance you have at succeeding with said target.
Question: Lately it seems whenever I strike up a meaningful conversation with a girl at the bar it has been ending with her telling me I’m not her type. Is there anything I can do to change her mind?
Question: You should be ashamed of yourselves! What you stand for and your advice to, “get women into bed,” is unexcusable. You are the perfect example of everything that is wrong with our society today. You have no respect for women or the human body. Your actions speak loudly and show the world that you are an ugly person inside. I will pray for you and the people you infect with you vile information, so that their soul may be saved. Repent your ways or be cast in hell! We are all God’s creatures, he has a plan for everyone of us. Just be yourself, believe in the Lord, and in when the time is right he will introduce you to your life partner. No gimmicks, no tricks.
If you ever needed a list of things not to do around women, here you go. Don’t be surprised if you have made the list once or twice. These are common mistakes most guys make in the game of pick up. Read the rest of this entry »
Women are not at the bar to talk to their girl friends. They are out to have a good time, have a few drinks, and meet a guy or two. The average woman will spend two to three hours getting ready for a night out. From picking out what clothes to wear, to doing her hair and makeup, chatting with their friends as to what to wear and where to go. Their whole goal is to look good to attract you. So do not be afraid to approach and start a conversation. Remember you are there to make her night. You are the reason she gets dressed up when she goes out. Don’t worry if you see her rejecting guys. It’s common for any woman to build up a natural defense when she goes out. She is so used to guys coming up and hitting on her with the same cheesy pick up lines, that she automatically is programmed to say no. They like to hold themselves to a standard. They did not just spend the last three hours to be picked up by the first guy that comes along in ratty jeans and an old t-shirt. They could have stayed at home for that. Read the rest of this entry »
First impressions matter. Within the first twenty to thirty seconds of meeting someone they are evaluating you from head to toe, making a lasting first impression. You are evaluated on your appearance, your body language, and your mannerisms. Every aspect of you is taken into account. Once that first impression is made, there is not a whole lot we can do to change it. First impressions are human nature and processed in the mind subconsciously. There is nothing we can do to stop it, but we can damn sure create the type of first impression we want.